Human Sexuality

NPCC and Human Sexuality

As Christians, our faith influences every aspect of our lives, and the ways that we are and interact with one another as sexual people is no exception. Here at North Park Covenant Church, we are in the midst of a season of paying close attention to what faithfulness and flourishing do and can look like within our community of faith. Admittedly, this is a complicated conversation, but it is so important. It requires deep study of the Bible, a keen awareness of culture—both ancient and current—a trusting and engaged community, and individuals of good will committed to grow with one another.

In addition to the general conversation about how we all live faithfully as God’s people, there has been a particular emphasis on how to extend welcome, grace, and community to LGBTQ people both within and without our church family. Our church has been deeply troubled by the polarizing way our culture and our churches have attempted to influence one another, and we are looking to enter this vital and complex conversation with open ears and hearts as we together discern what it looks to be submitted to God’s Word and committed to human flourishing for everyone.


A Congregationally Discerned Statement of Welcome

At a congregational meeting in the Spring of 2018 the church decided together to adopt this two-part document consisting of a short Statement of Welcome and a longer Affirmation of Inclusion and Our Life Together

Statement of Welcome

We welcome all people to begin or deepen their relationship with Christ through worship and study. We invite all believers to fully participate in the life and ministry of our church as members, leaders, and lay staff. We celebrate the gifts and presence of diverse Christians among us—whether those differences be race, ethnicity, age, marital status, sexual orientation, gender identity, ability, or socioeconomic status. We are blessed by our diversity and are unified in Christ.

Preamble

  • Whereas we do not establish creedal statements for our members, we do on occasion offer affirmations on how we are to reflect God’s love toward one another and to our community.
  • Whereas those who craft official church documents may require guidance on matters of inclusion.
  • Whereas those who write unofficial outwardly facing statements that do not influence policy or procedures still need to know the general intent of the congregation.

NPCC Affirmation of Inclusion and Our Life Together

We welcome and invite all people to begin or deepen their relationship with Christ and to fully participate in the life and ministry of our church.

A Created and Called People

We believe that all people are created with the essential dignity and intrinsic value that comes from being made in the image of God (Genesis 1). This fundamental identity calls us as individuals and church communities to love God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength, and our neighbor as our self (Luke 10:27). We recognize that sin, both individual and social, has distorted our relationships with God, self, and others (Romans 3). Though broken in these relationships, we believe that, by grace through faith, nothing can ultimately separate us from the love of God (Romans 8:38–39). Because we have been so reconciled in Christ, God has called us to the ministry of reconciliation with each other (2 Corinthians 5:16–21). We love because God first loved us (1 John 4:19).

Our Covenant Identity

“The Evangelical Covenant Church (ECC) is a communion of congregations gathered by God, united in Christ, and empowered by the Holy Spirit to obey the great commandment and the great commission.”1 As a member congregation of the ECC, our founding identity is to be a friend of all who fear God (Psalm 119:63). Our vitality stems from our new life in Christ, which foremost calls us to live for God’s glory and neighbors’ good. Our authority is the living word of Scripture, which we confess as the only perfect rule for faith, doctrine, and conduct.2

Recognizing that faithful people can and will come to different interpretations of Scripture, we commit to fellowship with one another, as together we seek God and participate in God’s mission. Our church’s core mission is guided by a faith active in love—knowing “the two cannot be separated without diminishing the gospel.”3 As Christ’s representative in the world, the church is to be an agent of grace, entrusted with the message of reconciliation, hope, justice, and peace. We strive to model Christ both in how we agree and disagree with one another; our unity does not require uniformity. These values have guided the ECC since its founding in 1885.

Our Lament

We confess that our church has not fully lived into its call to be the body of Christ. This confession is more than a generic admission of sin; it recognizes and admits that at times we have neglected marginalized friends and members. Too often we have chosen to remain in the quiet comfort of the familiar rather than be challenged by the diverse witnesses Christ brings to our church (Matthew 25:14–46). We confess that our silence has hurt individuals, driven some away, and prevented us from being a truly welcoming community. We repent and seek forgiveness for what we have done and for what we have left undone.

On Human Sexuality and the Life of Our Church

As a congregation, North Park Covenant Church (NPCC) has met to discuss, pray, and discern questions of human sexuality and what it means to love our neighbor. We have considered scriptural, theological, and ecclesial interpretations of these matters, consulted resources from the ECC, and listened to personal experiences.4 We acknowledge that lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer/questioning (LGBTQ) persons have been a part of our church community throughout our congregation’s many years, and it may not have been a safe space for LGBTQ people. In light of this, it is important that we make clear our welcome to LGBTQ persons and their families.

We invite all persons—regardless of gender identity, marital status, or sexual orientation—to receive baptism, communion, and pastoral care and to fully participate in our life together as worshippers, members, leaders, and lay staff.

We recognize the complexity of journeying together in a theologically diverse congregation and denomination. Our credentialed Covenant pastors are not able to officiate or host same-sex weddings. We are likewise unable to call LGBTQ pastors to lead our church unless they are committed to living by the ECC’s discerned position on human sexuality, which is faithfulness in heterosexual marriage and celibacy in singleness.5 We realize that not all our members will come to the same conclusion about the Bible’s teaching on same-sex relationships and gender identity. In this context, nevertheless, we will support and trust each other, including our LGBTQ members, to discern God’s guidance in our lives. NPCC will respect and support all legally recognized marriage relationships.

Our Mutual Commitments

Church membership brings individuals and the body of Christ into mutual commitment. “Membership does not purport to be spiritual maturity, but rather the indication of having given oneself unreservedly to Christ while recognizing the importance of community for that journey going forward.”6 “Membership in the church shall be granted on application to those who through faith in God's son, our Lord Jesus Christ, have been born anew to a living hope, have been baptized according to the Holy Scriptures, desire to live a Christian life, and promise to support the overall ministry of the church and to share in its worship, fellowship, and service.”7

Through grace, all are equally capable of a personal relationship with God, and we welcome the gifts and presence of diverse Christians among us—whether those be differences of race, ethnicity, age, marital status, sexual orientation, gender identity, ability, or socioeconomic status. We are blessed by our diversity and are unified in Christ. As a body we are committed to listen to and learn from all within our community so that together we may better dwell in Christ’s love and live into our calling to be the church. We exhort every believer to submit humbly to the conviction and guidance of the Holy Spirit in all areas of their life.

While the work of reconciliation can be fraught with risk and fear, our sentiment is not to fight a culture war but to seek Christ and to love people. In this spirit, we commit to advocate for those who are marginalized and to not be a barrier to those seeking access to the church and God’s love, grace, and forgiveness. We pray that Christ’s love will dwell deeply within us all, and that we will continue to share that love with one another.

Conclusion

Our welcome arises from the presence of Christ in our lives, the witness of the Holy Scriptures, and our character as a congregation in the North Park neighborhood and the ECC. It neither seeks to settle any theological debate nor argue for a particular interpretation of specific Scriptures. Rather, it welcomes into our common life all who seek Christ and fellowship with his people.

                                                     

  1. Constitution of North Park Covenant Church, Preamble; Evangelical Covenant Church Constitution and Bylaws, Preamble.
  2. Evangelical Covenant Church Constitution and Bylaws, “Confession,” Article II, Section 2.1.
  3. Covenant Affirmations, “Whole Mission of the Church” (2005), 12.
  4. For more information on this process and for additional resources, see http://www.npcovenant.org/hstf-resources/.
  5. Evangelical Covenant Church, “Guidelines for Covenant Pastors and Congregations Regarding Human Sexuality,” 2015, available at http://www.covchurch.org/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2015/10/Guidelines-for-Covenant-Pastors-and- Congregations-Regarding-Human-Sexuality.pdf.
  6. Evangelical Covenant Church, “Guidelines for Covenant Pastors and Congregations Regarding Human Sexuality.”
  7. North Park Covenant Church Constitution, Article V.

Looking Back as We Move Forward Our conversation here at NPCC is one that has a history. The story of our congregational meetings, the Human Sexuality Task Force, the members' survey and discussion, the Resolution Rewrite Committee and our process to this point are all part of our congregation's journey of discernment.

The narrative of that process can be found here.

Resources for Our Conversation As we have talked and learned together, we have drawn on a multitude of resources from the Evangelical Covenant Church, Christian and secular scholars, people open to full inclusion, people who hold to more traditional boundaries for sexual behaviors, and our internal surveys and discussions.

All of those resources can be found here.